“Blended families” begin with such high hopes. However, all too often the adults find themselves facing unhappy “resistant” children, mired in constant painful ruptures over parenting issues, disagreeing about everything from basic values to the “appropriate” cost of a pair of sneakers and caught in tangles with ex-spouses. The longing captured in the language of “blended families” can add layers of shame to dashed hopes. Meanwhile children often feel quite misunderstood and alone.
The intensity and complexity of the issues can be daunting for even experienced clinicians. Unfortunately, using a first-time family map can be misleading, frustrating, and even destructive. The good news is that forty years of research and clinical work tell us a lot about how to help. Sadly, despite the fact that 42% of Americans have a close stepfamily relationship, few clinical programs provide even the most basic training.
Whether you work with individuals, couples, families, or with adults or with children, this workshop will help you give you solid practical guidance about what works and what doesn’t to help stepfamily members meet their challenges. You’ll learn about a clinical framework that integrates a wide variety of therapeutic modalities: Psychoeducational, interpersonal, and intrapsychic/family-of-origin. You’ll leave with a clear map of this territory, a full box of practical tools for sowing realistic hope, softening conflict, and forging connection, as well as a boat load of great handouts.
The Ferentz Institute, Inc. is an approved sponsor of the Maryland Board of Social Work Examiners for continuing education credits for licensed social workers in Maryland. CEU approval for all trainings is also granted to Psychologists, LCPC’s and MFT’s and approved by the Board of Professional Counselors and Therapists and the Board of Examiners for Psychologists in Maryland. Reciprocity has also been granted for clinicians in Washington, DC, Virginia, West Virginia, Indiana, Georgia, and Massachusetts. The Institute also maintains full responsibility for all programming.
In order to provide Category 1 CEUs for all of our trainings, the Maryland Board of Social Work Examiners requires online workshops to be live, interactive, and experienced in real time. Therefore, none of our trainings are recorded for later viewing.
To thank you for your interest in The Ferentz Institute, we are delighted to offer you a very special gift! When you register for a workshop along with a colleague, you will both receive $30.00 off the regular tuition price of $169.00. You and your friend DO NOT necessarily have to sign up for the same class.
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Describe several “easy wrong turns” therapists make in working with stepfamily members.
Describe what works for parenting, stepparenting, and discipline in stepfamilies.
Recognize stepfamily challenges for kids, parents, stepparents, and ex-spouses
Gain practical tools for meeting stepfamily challenges on three different levels:
Psychoeducational, interpersonal, and intrapsychic
8:45 – 9:40
Meet Gary and Claire
Internal Family Systems 101
How Stepfamilies are Different
Stepfamilies Come in Many Forms
The Five Challenges
Three Levels of Clinical Work
9:40 – 10:00
Meeting the Challenges
First Challenge: Insider/outsider positions are intense. And they are “stuck.”
Understanding insider/outsider challenges
10:00 – 10:10 BREAK
10:10 – 10:35
Meeting insider/outsider challenges: Practical steps on three levels
10:35 – 10:55
10:55 – 11:05 BREAK
11:05 – 11:20
Discussion and Questions
11:20 – 12:15 pm
Second Challenge: Children struggle with losses, loyalty binds, and change.
Understanding children’s challenges
Meeting children’s challenges: Practical steps on three levels
12:15 – 1:15 pm LUNCH
1:15 – 1:30 pm
Discussion and Questions
1:30 – 2:00 pm
Third Challenge: Parenting tasks divide parents and stepparents
Understanding the challenges of parenting and stepparenting
Best practices for parenting, stepparenting, and discipline in stepfamilies
2:00 – 2:10 pm BREAK
2:10 – 2:25
Fourth Challenge: Building a new stepfamily culture while respecting already-established cultures.
Understanding the challenge of building a sense of “we” in the presence of “us and them”
3 levels of help for what works (and doesn’t) to build a new stepfamily culture
2:25 – 2:45 pm
Fifth Challenge: Ex-spouses are a permanent part of the family
Understanding the challenge
3 levels of help for meeting the challenges of parenting across households
2:45 – 2:55 pm
The fantasy (“The dog is dead the kids are gone and it’s just us.”) vs. reality
Fraught father-daughter-new partner dynamics
2:55 – 3:05 pm BREAK
3:05 – 3:35 pm
Demonstration and Discussion
3:35 – 3:45 pm
THRIVING in STEPFAMILY RELATIONSHIPS
Stages of development in stepfamily relationships
Claire and Sam as a mature thriving stepfamily
3:45 – 4:00 pm
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